Questioning others

If you have ever been married or seriously involved with someone and or questioned a teenager, you have experienced a small taste of interrogation. I have always liked the mystery detective type things and decoding all the parts or information to determine the truth in the facts of what has happened. I find it very interesting to dig into a story and to determine what and how things have happened. IT is something some people just enjoy doing and have a knack for.

The art of interrogation is quite a skill and if lucky enough an inborn talent and skill that one can have. The learned technique of talking to and interrogating an individual is not the bullying and threatening that some might think. IT is a way to talk to and to question, to get the person to talk to you, to get the person within the mind set that you are there listening. Depending on the situation and or ordeal, there are numerous techniques to accomplish what one is looking for. It can be quite personal at times but yet the interrogator has to separate that out and do the task at hand. Being able to become the person interrogating and manage all the conversation is quite draining but a worthy accomplishment when it works well. IT is amazing to me the things that people will talk about and will bring up in that type of situation. The tug and pull and the prying and questioning that takes place is a art of dancing few rarely see. If you have ever wondered what happens to someone that has caused a violation and or been arrested, you would be amazed at what all goes into it. The interrogator will begin to prepare. Let me tell you for the most part there is a group of interrogators working on facts and preparing the needed things to perform the interrogation needed for the situation.

It is task only some can do to properly interrogate and accomplish what needs to be done. Next time if you watch a questioning that might be shown on tv or thru a book or online, pay attention to the dance that is done and to the skill of the interrogator(s).

Fall is here

Fall is here for most of the country, along with the windy and rainy weather my part of the country receives, we are also receiving quite a few rain storms and some threats of hurricanes. This time of year it is common to have this kind of weather. Thankfully along with that we do receive some cooler from time to time. Tonight is one of those such nights. As I walked outside and feel the damp cooler weather, I am reminded of fall nights. I remember attending quite a few football games and or basketball games during weather such as this. The crispness to the air is refreshing and a welcome change. I love this time of year where the weather cools and the air seems to become more welcoming. I could just sit outside in it at dawn and night time just enjoying the night. I love the cool breezes that will touch one from time to time. What a joy it is to grab a blanket and curl up in a chair and enjoy the coolness. It makes me yearn for the winter as it will be here sometime either in next couple of months or so.

What a blessing we have to have the freedom to enjoy the pleasures of the our life, which include the weather and the enjoyment of coolness, heat, sometimes rain and snow. Whatever the weather is try to enjoy all the moments in your life. For over an hour this afternoon the electricity went out at my place so I just grabbed a book and listened to my ipod while we waited. It was peaceful and quite for the most part. I forget how pleasing the quietness can be. What joys we have all around us, it is just up to us to enjoy and create all the special moments in our life. Along with that we need the time to recover and regenerate ourselves. Whatever that is for you remember how important it is to continue to carry on with your life in serenity in the way it should go.